This blog is an offshoot of my previous blog, Spreading Our Wings... http://www.spreadingourwings.blogspot.com.
As before, this blog is personal and political... serious and sometimes silly...
My goal is to relay what I deem to be important information, express some of my viewpoints, engage in some online creativity - and find out (please comment appropriately) what others are thinking, as well!
[My apologies for not catching this mans name (Thank You!)]
[UC District Attorney Holly Carnright (Thank You!)]
[Ulster County Commissioner of Social Services Roberto Rodriquez (Thank You!)]
[Executive Director of the New York State Office for the Prevention of Domestic Violence, Amy Barasch (Thank You!)]
[City of Kingston and Domestic Violence Court Judge James Gilpatric (Thank You!)]
[Family of Woodstock Domestic Violence Program Director Kathleen Moretti (Thank You!)]
[Closing Poem by Catherine Spiotta (Thank You!)]
This event - which also included presentations by Laura Wells (Thank You!) of the Ulster County Crime Victims Assistance Program, KW [a domestic violence survivor (Thank You!)] and Teresa Letterio Maxwell [the niece (Thank You!) of DV / homicide victim Tracey Passaro) kicked off the beginning of Domestic Violence Awareness month (as part of a national Domestic Violence Awareness campaign) - and the Ulster County Office Building will be lit with purple lights (turned on towards the end of this event) for the month of October.
Every victim matters...
Every survivor matters...
Every voice matters...
Every child matters...
Every image matters...
Every t-shirt matters...
Every moment matters!
Thank You,
Domestic Violence (in childhood) Survivor, Child Sexual Abuse Survivor, Adult Rape Survivor and (doing what I can where I can when I can) Citizen Advocate,
NS
[If any errors in spelling or reporting are noted, please let me know and the appropriate corrections will be made. Thank you.]
Although technically I think Domestic Violence is defined as violence that takes place in the context of intimate relationships and/or in the home - the following video about violence in the workplace (This made me cry...) is very powerful:
["AFL Union Men say Stop the Violence"; as submitted to You Tube by lclimenh on October 01, 2009; http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=JNc9x7YfDDQ]
I attended the Domestic Violence forum (for lack of a better word) last night; and I found it to be one of the most inspiring (in the area of awareness, education and advocacy) that I have attended (locally) of late. Some photos are pending - but for right now I want to extend my "thank yous" (from the heart) to all of those involved!
October is Domestic Violence Awareness Month; and tonight - at 6:30 PM - there will be purple lighting (to continue all month) at the U.C. Legislature / Motor Vehicle Building - along with a panel of speakers. Please show up to support the courageous victims and/or survivors... Please show up to listen... Please show up to say (even, if need be, in silence...) "no more."
Viewer Discretion Advised...
["Domestic Violence"; as submitted to You Tube by Sugarnspice1989 on May 20, 2008; http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=xYWxfxMOUO
["ACORN vs BLACKWATER PT 1"; as submitted to You Tube by mds123069 on September 27, 2009; http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=tTs-X0WlytE]
"Rachel Maddow- Acorn vs BLACKWATER PT 2":
["ACORN vs BLACKWATER PT 2"; as submitted to You Tube by mds123069 on September 27, 2009; http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=UJZso1HOQjY]
"Rachel Maddow- Bipartisan" Health Care Reform":
["Rachel Maddow-"Bipartisan" Health Care Reform"; as submitted to You Tube by pigpen1010 on September 23, 2009; http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=3n3U49O903Y]
Some interesting and informative links:
FactCheck.org: http://www.factcheck.org/
New York State - Commission on Public Integrity: http://www.nyintegrity.org/public/access.html
League of Women Voters of the United States: http://www.lwv.org//AM/Template.cfm?Section=Home
As someone that has worked in the human services area, I have been exposed to videos - during trainings - such as the following. They are tough to watch. But if we don't face the fact that these issues are real... and do what we can (as individuals and as a community) to educate, advocate and (where applicable) take the appropriate actions [I noticed, recently, that one of the Ward groups was going to address the topic of child sex offenders and child safety (Kudos!)] --- who will?
Viewer discretion advised:
["Stop Child abuse- Child abuse Awareness"; as submitted to You Tube by adeardurff092385 on April 14, 2008; http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-Tn6xcw94lI]
Some (outdated but still pertinent) statistics:
"Early identification of sexual abuse victims appears to be crucial to the reduction of suffering of abused youth and to the establishment of support systems for assistance in pursuing appropriate psychological development and healthier adult functioning . As long as disclosure continues to be a problem for young victims, then fear, suffering, and psychological distress will, like the secret, remain with the victim" [Bagley, 1992; Bagley, 1991; Finkelhor et al. 1990; Whitlock & Gillman, 1989].
"Young girls who are forced to have sex are three times more likely to develop psychiatric disorders or abuse alcohol and drugs in adulthood, than girls who are not sexually abused. Sexual abuse was also more strongly linked with substance abuse than with psychiatric disorders. It was also suggested that sexual abuse may lead some girls to become sexually active at an earlier age and seek out older boyfriends who might, in turn, introduce them to drugs. Psychiatric disorders were from 2.6 to 3.3 times more common among women whose CSA included intercourse, and the risk of substance abuse was increased more than fourfold, according to the results. Family factors -- parental education, parenting behavior, family financial status, church attendance -- had little impact on the prevalence of psychiatric or substance abuse disorders among these women, the investigators observe. Similarly, parental psychopathology did not predict the association between CSA and later sychopathology" (Kenneth S. Kendler, M.D., et al, Medical College of Virginia Commonwealth University, Archives of General Psychiatry 2000;57:953-959; Medscape (Review)]
"Adolescents with a history of sexual abuse are significantly more likely than their counterparts to engage in sexual behavior that puts them at risk for HIV infection, according to Dr. Larry K. Brown and associates, from Rhode Island Hospital, in Providence. Inconsistent condom use was three times more likely among youths who had been sexually abused than among the 55 who had not. A history of sexual abuse was also significantly associated with less impulse control and higher rates of sexually transmitted diseases. According to Dr. Brown, 'These results suggest two things. Abused kids need adequate counseling around abuse issues. A lot of these kids keep re-experiencing the anxiety and trauma for years.' The second issue, he said, is that 'most therapy does not address current sexual behavior' and the anxieties that sexually abused adolescents experience" (Larry K. Brown, M.D., et al, "American Journal of Psychiatry"; 2000;157:1413-1415).
As of 1992 (CCPCA), "approximately 95% of teenage prostitutes [reported having been] sexually abused."
"Long term effects of child abuse include fear, anxiety, depression, anger, hostility, inappropriate sexual behavior, poor self esteem, tendency toward substance abuse and difficulty with close relationships" [Browne & Finkelhor, 1986].
As of 1991 (U.S. Department of Justice), "approximately 31% of women in prison state that they had been abused as children."
As of 1993 (Forward) there were reputedly an estimated "60 million survivors of childhood sexual abuse in America."
["Blue - an introduction - child abuse"; as submitted to You Tube by bleaux42 on March 29, 2007; http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=S_UCrnbleCk]
"Sexual and Other Abuse May Alter a Brain Region..."
"Many women and men who have been subjected to severe physical or sexual abuse during childhood suffer from long-term disturbances of the psyche. They may be invaded by nightmares and flashbacks -- much like survivors of war -- or, conversely, may freeze into benumbed calm in situations of extreme stress. Two recent studies find that survivors of child abuse may also have a smaller hippocampus relative to control subjects. If substantiated, the discovery could fill out the profile of an abuse survivor and help define what constitutes abuse."
"Changes in the hippocampus--the part of the brain that deals with short-term memory and possibly the encoding and retrieval of long-term memory--could, researchers suggest, be wrought by hormones flooding the brain during and after a stressful episode."
"Dissociation and PTSD are not sharply separated and often alternate in the same individual. Dissociation, often employed by children who cannot escape from the threat of abuse, is a means of mentally withdrawing from a horrific situation by separating it from conscious awareness. The skill allows the victim to feel detached from the body or self, as if what is happening is not happening to her or him."
"David W. Foy of Pepperdine University notes that within days or weeks of a traumatic experience, therapy seems beneficial in dispelling PTSD. This period, Bremner speculates, could reflect the timescale over which the hippocampus organizes experiences into a person's worldview. Although some functions of the hippocampus are known, its mechanics are poorly understood."
"Psychiatrists contend that if repeatedly invoked in childhood, dissociation prevents memories from being integrated into consciousness and can lead to an altered sense of self. Many normal children play with imaginary companions; abused children can use such creative resources to a pathological extent, in extreme cases falling prey to multiple personality disorder (MPD). Adults may continue to use dissociation as a coping mechanism. Once dissociation or PTSD develops, the majority of psychological symptoms and the hormonal profile are very resistant to treatment" ("Scientific American," N.Y., (273: 4) 10/95, P. 14.)
"The typical child sex offender [My guess is that this number only pertains to serial pedophiles - but this is still huge...!] molests an average of 117 children, most of who do not report the offence" [National Institute of Mental Health, 1988; bold emphasis mine)].
"It is estimated that approximately 71% of child sex offenders are under 35 and knew the victim at least casually. About 80% of these individuals fall within normal intelligence ranges; 59% gain sexual access to their victims through, seduction or enticement" (Burgess & Groth, 1984).
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"Survey Shows Dramatic Increase in Child Abuse and Neglect, 1986-1993... Excerpts from HHS Release, September 18, 1996...
The Department of Health and Human Services released a survey estimating that child abuse and neglect in the United States nearly doubled during the seven years between 1986 and 1993.
According to the HHS study, the number of total child maltreatment instances that were investigated by state agencies remained constant from 1986 to 1993; however, the percentage of cases investigated declined dramatically.
'It is shameful and startling to see that so many more children are in danger and that proportionately fewer incidents are investigated,' HHS Secretary Donna E. Shalala said. 'Now states, schools, health care professionals -- all of us -- must commit ourselves to investigating and preventing child abuse with far greater effectiveness than we have seen in the past.'
The report estimated the number of abused and neglected children increased from 1.4 million in 1986, to over 2.8 million in 1993. The number of children who were seriously injured quadrupled from about 143,000 to nearly 570,000.
Schools identified the largest number of children at risk, yet state services investigated only 16 percent of these children. For the cases identified in the study, less than 50 percent of children identified as maltreated by any source (except law enforcement) were investigated by child protective services. [Bold emphasis mine].
Shalala said, 'We are giving states more flexibility, demanding more accountability and focusing on the only bottom line that matters: results.'
In regard to sexual victimization, the NIS survey concluded: Girls are sexually abused three times more often than boys; Boys have greater risk of emotional neglect & serious injury than girls.
The NIS is funded by HHS National Center on Child Abuse and Neglect and mandated by Congress. Previous NIS studies were released in 1981 and 1988."
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