On Child Abuse and PTSD

Part of what happens, when a child is abused, is that they all too often have thier very spirit crushed...  With the fight to get it (thier spirit) back offtimes insurmountable, leading to lives that are often torn apart and compromised by anxiety, depression, PTSD, addictions, revictimization (s) and so much more...

How many times have I heard that I "am full of potential"?  How many times has one of my children (victimized as a youth; now an adult) heard that he is "full of potential?

Indeed he is.  And so am I...

But a feeling of "safety in the world" has to preceed self-esteem, self-confidence and "self-actualization" [a theory that has been fleshed out by a number of top psychologists] --- and those things --- for survivors of chronic childhood trauma --- are hard to come by and/or hold on to --- indeed.

Which leads me, again, to ask why more focus on the prevention of childhood trauma and the protection of our children from familial, "friend" and stranger abuse is not given a much, much higher priority?

Is my writeup below on Human Greed Virus (HGV) somehow applicable here?  Why so much emphasis on petty (my opinion) issues (i.e. a commission to study cats...) - and so little emphasis on the prevention of childhood abuse?

Don't get me wrong, I like cats - and they deserve thier spot (I've said before that I think the cat issue is a animal warden / SPCA / etc. issue)  in the sun...

But here we sit, in the midst of how many unidentified and identified (but now free...) child abusers and child sex offenders - with one of our main concers - cats?????

My research, extensive, tells me that when a "prostitute" is arrested - the police are more than likely arresting someone that has a history of severe child abuse...

My research, extensive, tells me that a lot of the folks in our battered womens shelters, homeless shelters, jails and prisons generally have a history of severe child abuse...

My research, extensive, tells me that the folks that end up in rehabilitation centers and/or psychiatric hospitals generally have a history of severe child abuse...

And my EYES tell me that a whole lot of jobs [from non-profits, to pharmaceutical company employees, to hospital employees, to rehab workers, to folks employed by the penal system...] depend upon this very [Isn't this pretty damn sad?] population...

Prevention, folks.  Lets look at how we can prevent HGV (human greed virus) from spreading and demoralizing our children, our communities, ourselves...

Let's protect our "angels" --- in the manner that a civilized society CAN and SHOULD.

Because in my opinion [I once heard this said at an MHA workshop]:  "child abuse is the
greatest 'weapon of mass destruction' (WMD) out there."

And, as long as we ignore that fact? 

Nothing - in my opinion - is going to get any (over the long term; for the families that need
it most...) better.

I read in yesterday's or today's "Freeman" that there is going to be a child abuse and awareness
workshop or seminar (I forget the exact wording) at a school in Boiceville sometime soon.

This is great. 

But why not in Kingston too?  Why not at every school in Kingston and in an open community
forum?

Why not set up a child abuse prevention committee - bringing in folks from the Crime Victims
Assistance Program, the YWCA, the Neighborhood Watch, etc?

If cats are worthy of our focus...

Don't you think the safety of our children should be on somebody's "focus list" as well?????

[It is a good idea to keep an eye on what crimes are being committed in the city and where released sex offenders are reputedly living.  One can see an up to date map of this [put a check in the sex offender box] at:  http://classic.crimereports.com/widget/widget.html?CRSearch=Kingston,NY .(This link is also available in the sidebar)]

HGV (Human Greed Virus)

Below is a video [part 1; part 2/3 is available on You Tube] of the most overt caste system - that I am aware of - on this planet.  However, one might ask how many less overt caste systems - invisible but potent - exist in other areas of the world - including (perhaps...) the United states of America?

What if there is something (HGV, or human greed virus..) [My own thought-creation...]  that is even worse (more comprehensive and begging for a cure...) than "human immunodeficiency virus (HIV)"?  

What if HGV (human greed virus) was ravaging our streets; crippling (physically and/or mentally; diminishing the potentialities of our fellow human beings; creating scapegoat after scapegoat...) and killing our children one after another after another?

What if the main component of human greed virus (HGV) came down to the physical and sexual abuse of economically disadvantaged children of both sexes - all races - and ethnic and/or religious groups?

What if the "powers that be" - at least some of them - knew that HGV had been set loose many, many, many [a century or more...] ago?

What if the "powers that be" - at least some of them - not only knew about HGV - but chose to (covertly and deceptively, but of course...)  FEED IT?

Sure, a first time abuser (physical / sexual) might not be identified by any signs - has no dot on his (or, much more rarely, her...) head.

But a second time abuser?  A third time abuser?  A fourth time abuser?

Human Greed Virus (HGV) and child physical and sexual abuse???  Where is the connection you ask?

When perps walk and kids can't talk...

When communities turn thier heads and seek only to "feed the beast..."

When history, both personal and political, becomes distorted by lies, cover-ups, collusion...

Listen closely:

You will hear a child scream.

How do known perps (child physical abuse, child sexual abuse, batterers, racists, etc.) get hired by child care centers, youth facilities, not-for-profits, religious organizations, schools, police agencies, political organizations, etc????? 

Why are they not checked out to the max via fingerprint checks, alcohol and drug use checks, complete background checks, lie detector tests, etc. prior to being allowed to work with our children and other vulnerable populations?

Should a former felon ever be hired by one of the agencies noted above?

My opinion is:  NO.  Absolutely NOT.

Because even if thier intentions are good, which might be the case - there is apparently something in thier history that just might come back to life...

In a land where ghosts walk, no one talks and greed is the fuel of collusion and cover-ups.

Human Greed Virus (HGV) existed in the early days of Upstate New York, big time - leading to events such as the Anti-Rent-War (Delaware County, NY) --- spreading its tendrils, like spiderwebs choking out any chance of truth, this way and that --- linking up, but of course, with the strands (oh so sticky...) that were likewise stretching out from other lands....

You may not be able to follow this thread right now...

It is raw.

It is new.

It is not completely thought out...

Just know, for now, that even though "hurt people [all too often] hurt people" --- it might be that the original wounds came from the top --- where folks generally look "squeaky clean" and innocent.

Laws (in my opinion; related to this topic) all too often seem devised to protect the guilty, rather than (as is so often claimed) the innocent.

Just "food for thought..."

I'll return to this topic (HGV) later.

Unreported world india - "the broken people" part 1/3

Some Beautiful Winter Snow Photos and Photoart by BF... Ulster County, New York

Some beautiful Winter snow photos and photoart by BF [utilized with permission].  All of these are local[Ulster County / New York State] - as far as I know.